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ACCOMPAGNEMENTS FORMATIFS POUR LES ÉQUIPES DU SECTEUR PUBLIC

Cost Per Notch Redux
What Every Girl Should Know
What Every Girl Should Know
Setting Boundaries With Your Partner
Managing Stress at the End of a Relationship
Valentine’s Day: A Date Which Will Live In Infamy
The Importance of Trust in a Family
Let Go of Your Past to Heat Up Your Present Relationship
The Hottest Kiss in the History of Earth
It’s a Fling Thing
Looking for Love This Summer?


Ton and I have been descriptive of what happens when love goes badly within our legal framework, and these anecdotes rise above our personal anecdotes to reflect systemic logic. It’s very important to note (or disprove if you disagree) that the cultural and legal advantages enjoyed by our distaff side are potentially fatal to every impulse that a loving man seeking the comforts of home and family. We are dealing with a nearly complete renovation of the SMP, that has occurred in the last 50 years. What we have left, to us as men, is hope — and hope alone — as a strategy. If hope functions as strategy for you, well and good. Please let me make the decisions, however, if I am in your presence, because your hope-as-a-strategy has a very high probability of getting me killed. I will instead seek insight and sovereignty, and seek my comforts in knowledge rather than hope.

I suspect that Ton looks at this situation as I do, perhaps based on life experience. In his work, if he makes the wrong decision, he isn’t inconvenienced, or “on average” subject to a bad day. He is DEAD.

I look at this situation from the perspective of a pilot: sure, on average, I can fly through that thunderstorm (i.e., I can (and have) slow to Va and drop the gear and ride the 200 mph up and down drafts). I will succeed 9/10 times. Actuarially, however, I am already DEAD. The wings will fall off, and it’s just a question of when.

As noted, again, and generally speaking, this is when people like Ton and me are written off as hyperbole-spewing bitter losers, but I note that no one doing the writing-off ever denies that “theoretically” all this can happen. Actually, it’s not a theoretical outlier experience; it’s actually how the world, today, is designed to work. This fact drives female behavior in courtship or anything else that may follow.