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James Cameron on Marriage
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I am currently in this situation. The guy is emotionally unavailable and I am as well. But I have wanted him since the moment I laid eyes on him. He is the first guy that I ever approached (it was a very bold approach might I add) and I also treated him on our first date. His reasoning for not wanting a relationship is because he came out of a 5 year and just wanted to be free. My reasoning is because I am young and I just want to be free, have fun, and continue learn more about life with everything being on my own terms. Im just not at the point where I want to continually share my life with someone. Kinda selfish right now. But the connection we share is so wonderful but in the back of my mind I know it is exactly as Spradley said, when he is ready he wont choose me because I have not challenged him or shown him how much I value myself. I am not 100% sure that this an "L" I am willing to take but I am somewhat mentally prepared for it when the day comes. I am just happy that I am fully aware of my situation and a thanks to the writer for clarifying what I was already thinking.
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DallasNerd says:
December 14, 2011 at 10:05 am
You don’t fall into the ” I don’t value myself” category, the 2 of you don’t want a serious relationship and the reason why things are going so great between the 2 of you is because you both fully understand what it is but it sounds like your ready to change your status. I just wanted to let you know that part doesn’t apply if your not trying to make him settle down.
The Romantic vs. The Player: Another Man's Woman
The Romantic vs. The Player: Walking Dogs
Warning To The Women Who Date My Friends
Read Fine Print Before Dating My Unemployed Ass
Situationship, Isness, And The Relationship Thesaurus
James Cameron on Marriage
Why I Am No Longer Using The 10-Point Rating System
I am currently in this situation. The guy is emotionally unavailable and I am as well. But I have wanted him since the moment I laid eyes on him. He is the first guy that I ever approached (it was a very bold approach might I add) and I also treated him on our first date. His reasoning for not wanting a relationship is because he came out of a 5 year and just wanted to be free. My reasoning is because I am young and I just want to be free, have fun, and continue learn more about life with everything being on my own terms. Im just not at the point where I want to continually share my life with someone. Kinda selfish right now. But the connection we share is so wonderful but in the back of my mind I know it is exactly as Spradley said, when he is ready he wont choose me because I have not challenged him or shown him how much I value myself. I am not 100% sure that this an "L" I am willing to take but I am somewhat mentally prepared for it when the day comes. I am just happy that I am fully aware of my situation and a thanks to the writer for clarifying what I was already thinking.
Reply
DallasNerd says:
December 14, 2011 at 10:05 am
You don’t fall into the ” I don’t value myself” category, the 2 of you don’t want a serious relationship and the reason why things are going so great between the 2 of you is because you both fully understand what it is but it sounds like your ready to change your status. I just wanted to let you know that part doesn’t apply if your not trying to make him settle down.