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ACCOMPAGNEMENTS FORMATIFS POUR LES ÉQUIPES DU SECTEUR PUBLIC

Cost Per Notch Redux
What Every Girl Should Know
What Every Girl Should Know
Setting Boundaries With Your Partner
Managing Stress at the End of a Relationship
Valentine’s Day: A Date Which Will Live In Infamy
The Importance of Trust in a Family
Let Go of Your Past to Heat Up Your Present Relationship
The Hottest Kiss in the History of Earth
It’s a Fling Thing
Looking for Love This Summer?


He ended up falling hard for a smokin’ red-head from Northwestern, who did not like him back, ended up hooking up with other guys extensively, and used him as an emotional tampon.

This would not have happened had he not tried using online dating…he got a lot of first dates because his profile says “architect” and he looks good in a suit, and bombed after that. He now has a girlfriend, who he met through the traditional Jewish way: Matchmaker, matchmaker, make me a match. They absolutely adore each other. This is what I recommended to him in the first place.

Now he may have “courted” after that, but it was proper courting, vetted by the community. Courting in the ACTUAL sense of the word.

Another friend used online dating fared somewhat more successfully, because he is an attractive clubber (my friends and wife call him “Jersey Shore”). He got a lot of first dates, that led to some extremely aggressive make-outs. But he’s essentially an only-child momma’s boy that needs some lovin’, and smothered every single girl with constant texts. Myself and other friends shook our heads every time we saw him text a girl 6-7 times during a movie.

He did find a girlfriend, after doing what we call “spinning plates”: he was dating multiple girls at a time and did not get attached to any of them too quickly.

Of course, Jersey Shore did not really need to use online dating, nor did he need to court, since he had girls practically throwing themselves at him every single weekend. He’s just a good Catholic boy who doesn’t want “those” girls, and defines quality as “not sleeping casually between relationships.” Among other things. For some reason, none of my guy friends actually think sleeping casually makes a woman “high quality” and think it actually degrades them. So he tried online dating instead.