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The Romantic vs. The Player: In Defense of the Other
The Romantic vs. The Player: Another Man's Woman
The Romantic vs. The Player: Walking Dogs
Warning To The Women Who Date My Friends
Read Fine Print Before Dating My Unemployed Ass
Situationship, Isness, And The Relationship Thesaurus
James Cameron on Marriage
Why I Am No Longer Using The 10-Point Rating System
I recently met a man who I really liked who also liked me. We laugh, we have a million and one things in common and we both find the other highly attractive. A month after meeting he told me “I don’t want to be with a woman right now I just want to flirt with many women and do my own thing”. And I HEARD HIM. After several months I stopped speaking with him because for me it was difficult to be around someone who I liked that I knew I could not build with in an intimate way and I communicated that. Seven months later he contacted me to let me know he missed me and I too miss him. And though it’s great to be laughing and joking again the boundaries stay UP because again, I heard him. We have never been physically intimate because I have made it clear I am waiting to be intimate with my next partner. It’s hard, but we were both honest about our stances which is why we can at least be friends who respect one another. Better luck next time :)
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Jla says:
September 2, 2011 at 11:26 am
THIS is why I have days when I don't want to deal with men at all. First of all the whole concept of being "emotionally unavailable" completely eludes me (and clearly I'm not the only woman). If I am attracted to someone, physically and mentally, why the hell would I want to disregard, or distance myself from, that person emotionally? It makes no sense. Men claim to be so logical – but I do not see the logic in this.
The Romantic vs. The Player: Another Man's Woman
The Romantic vs. The Player: Walking Dogs
Warning To The Women Who Date My Friends
Read Fine Print Before Dating My Unemployed Ass
Situationship, Isness, And The Relationship Thesaurus
James Cameron on Marriage
Why I Am No Longer Using The 10-Point Rating System
I recently met a man who I really liked who also liked me. We laugh, we have a million and one things in common and we both find the other highly attractive. A month after meeting he told me “I don’t want to be with a woman right now I just want to flirt with many women and do my own thing”. And I HEARD HIM. After several months I stopped speaking with him because for me it was difficult to be around someone who I liked that I knew I could not build with in an intimate way and I communicated that. Seven months later he contacted me to let me know he missed me and I too miss him. And though it’s great to be laughing and joking again the boundaries stay UP because again, I heard him. We have never been physically intimate because I have made it clear I am waiting to be intimate with my next partner. It’s hard, but we were both honest about our stances which is why we can at least be friends who respect one another. Better luck next time :)
Reply
Jla says:
September 2, 2011 at 11:26 am
THIS is why I have days when I don't want to deal with men at all. First of all the whole concept of being "emotionally unavailable" completely eludes me (and clearly I'm not the only woman). If I am attracted to someone, physically and mentally, why the hell would I want to disregard, or distance myself from, that person emotionally? It makes no sense. Men claim to be so logical – but I do not see the logic in this.