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When I look at the marriages of people my generation that I know and I know how they got together – the ones that have hung together the woman made the first move and was the chaser.
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marci says:
February 11, 2011 at 5:13 am
the level of maturity isnt an obstacle that you have to overcome in order to get into a relationship- the level of maturity decides whether a person can be in a relationship at all. so if both parties arnt mature enough – the relationship will fail.
someone may be interested in the beginning, truly believing or magically hoping that it will work out this time- only to run away when reality sets in.
the way to find out whether it can work is to try and start a relationship- you cannot know otherwise and there is no way around it. i really dont think it matters who started, if he is emotionally mature it will be ok , if not, nothing you do or dont do can turn him into a relationship capable person.
i am not saying that the beginnings are not important- they are, but maybe not of importance you are desperatly trying to give them. this will not make or break the relationship.
i would also forget the thing about men having more options or not having. an emotionally mature man will not go on changing his partners just because he can untill he turns too old. if he does, its his business, and such a man wouldnt be capable for a long term partnership anyway. would you prefer to have people forced into staying with one partner just because they have no other possibility? thats terrible.any kind of pressure is abominable and usless and detrimental for hapiness of either partners.
Relationship Advice -Mother's Day After Divorce
Advice on Whether or Not it's OK to Make Your Co-Worker an Office Spouse
Tips for Understanding a Spouses' Emotional Relationship Infidelity
Saying I Love You
Second Marriage Etiquette
Seeking Parental Approval
Dating Advice on Whether Flings are Harmless Fun or Dangerous Territory?
When I look at the marriages of people my generation that I know and I know how they got together – the ones that have hung together the woman made the first move and was the chaser.
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marci says:
February 11, 2011 at 5:13 am
the level of maturity isnt an obstacle that you have to overcome in order to get into a relationship- the level of maturity decides whether a person can be in a relationship at all. so if both parties arnt mature enough – the relationship will fail.
someone may be interested in the beginning, truly believing or magically hoping that it will work out this time- only to run away when reality sets in.
the way to find out whether it can work is to try and start a relationship- you cannot know otherwise and there is no way around it. i really dont think it matters who started, if he is emotionally mature it will be ok , if not, nothing you do or dont do can turn him into a relationship capable person.
i am not saying that the beginnings are not important- they are, but maybe not of importance you are desperatly trying to give them. this will not make or break the relationship.
i would also forget the thing about men having more options or not having. an emotionally mature man will not go on changing his partners just because he can untill he turns too old. if he does, its his business, and such a man wouldnt be capable for a long term partnership anyway. would you prefer to have people forced into staying with one partner just because they have no other possibility? thats terrible.any kind of pressure is abominable and usless and detrimental for hapiness of either partners.